我做的！！

[avalouwho2]

我做的！！！！一年前的今天，我开始了学习无酒精生活的旅程。我什至开始将所有内容打包到一个帖子中。一年前的今天，我给自己定了一年的目标，当时我的想法是：一年后"get" to go back and drink successfully. It was a pretty good strategy as far as early sobriety strategies go. Far enough out but still kinda doable. Took me 30 years to 得到 here really. What 是 that point for anybody where we 是 really ready to make a change. A mystery really. My dad rode the train all the way to the sad end. I just got to a point where there wasn't any illusion that I would do anything other than come home each night, start that ritual of drinking until I "fell asleep"又名昏倒，醒来的感觉就像胡扯。我怎么能知道我每天没有过多少生活。我们有多人情。成瘾是多么普遍。我想对任何想清醒的人说的是，他们说的是真的。"You CAN change, you better believe it. The tools ,the community, the support.....all essential. Open your mind. Read and learn. I would really encourage that. AA 是 great for some but it's so great to see alternatives take hold in the field of recovery. It's hard but simple. Not drinking 是 the easy part. Learning to feel your feelings and navigate the world as a newly sober 55 year old 是 tough. But each challenge, each kick *** rough day, each set back goes somewhere new and great. It's true, it 得到s better and better. Can't wait to begin year number two. Now I think "我要保持清醒，不是我必须保持清醒。 Sobriety 是 to be enjoyed not endured. My sad little beast sits in his corner. I have compassion for him now. He 是 always with me. I will always keep an eye on him. But it 得到s easier and easier to spot his tricks. I am in the drivers seat now and it has been 1000% worth it. Yeah!

[晴22]

Congratulations, 阿瓦鲁！ 你包装了很多真相&智慧归结为一个段落...感谢您的分享。今晚，我将朝您的方向吊起无酒精啤酒！

[jwg54]

恭喜您第一年。我喜欢关于"I 得到 to be sober, not I have to be sober."

爱& HUGS, James

[戈登1]

Wonderful

恭喜avalouwho2

[龙虾坦克]

这样的好消息和令人振奋的帖子！



祝您有美好的一天或至少有一个a脚的清醒一天！

[山姆 29]

The joy you 是 experiencing on your first year of sobriety reminds me of my own. Thank you for that, avalouwho2. Here's to your next year and the following years ahead. It 得到s even better, trust me on that.

爱，
山姆

[粗俗的]

恭喜，阿瓦鲁！我真的很喜欢您的帖子的正面能量。我正处于赌博中止的第二年。我在SMART中学到了很多东西，包括SMART工具，会议和论坛如何支持DOCS和BOCS的恢复。感谢您分享您的成功。它可以帮助我今天，以及希望明天和之后的每一天保持恢复。

[mh_logic]

Congrats avalou!

[avalouwho2]

谢谢你们！！！男孩，这几天感觉很回馈。我经历了缓慢的发布过程。我唯一的SMART活动是发布，对我来说有点用。但是最近我变得更加活跃，这增强了我的节制，并鼓励那些仍然在学习绳索的人感到很高兴。

[斯坦利修德]

这正是启发的主题/帖子。我只清醒了三个星期，但过去三个月的时间都差不多。我感觉很好，还记得头脑清晰，感觉很棒"normal "。您的热情会发扬光大，并有助于激发我.....谢谢！

[吉塔]

非常鼓舞人心的职位。您对我们是人类是正确的，这些成瘾的行为如此普遍是对的。
我有改变的能力对我也非常有帮助。
恭喜您！

[ylimeyh]

恭喜！我明天一年！在与我长达一年的争论之后，我真的觉得现在对您的骗子有同情心，这让我感到自己已经确定了界限。我会不时地扔骨头，想一想"是的，你是对的，如果我知道白爪的味道，我也将成为“很酷的孩子之一”"然后傻笑自己。

[戈登1]

那年ylimeyh做得好！

去吧！

[Questor7]

您的热情令人鼓舞。我真的很喜欢你说的话"N哦，我认为"我要保持清醒，不是我必须保持清醒。 Sobriety 是 to be enjoyed not endured. My sad little beast sits in his corner. I have compassion for him now. He 是 always with me. I will always keep an eye on him. But it 得到s easier and easier to spot his tricks. I am in the drivers seat now and it has been 1000% worth it. Yeah!"

恭喜您！

新年快乐

q7

[真实的]

感谢您分享这个。令人鼓舞。

[兰迪1022]

Awesome. Great job.

[樱桃可乐]

感谢您分享这个。我可以与其中的大部分联系，并感谢您给我带来希望。我非常喜欢下面的报价！大声笑

“My sad little beast sits in his corner. I have compassion for him now. He 是 always with me. I will always keep an eye on him. But it 得到s easier and easier to spot his tricks.”

[马维尔]

哇，我发现这很鼓舞人心，也正是我现在需要听到的。恭喜，非常感谢您的分享

[茉莉花]

我是目前在我的中国银行苦苦挣扎的人，只想说我遇到了您的故事&它启发了我很多。就像其他一些人所说的那样，特别引起共鸣的台词是 "我要保持清醒，不是我必须保持清醒。"

谢谢。

今天我要去做出更好的选择。